In control means we are equipped with power. Power, basically ia a degree of dependency. If 'a' is more depending to 'b' at any time, then it is agreed 'b' have more power and control towards 'a'. Under some circumstances, power and control which is intensily driven, creates and emerge as a power freak or control freak.
All aspects of life, either it is social, politics or economy prespective, the power and control is ultimate and absolute. If the power is corrupted, the it will be corrupt absolutely. If the control is abuse, then the control will be abuse ultimately.So, if you're feeling very powerful and very in-controlled, please have some mercy.